Bitterness is an interesting thing. As far as the taste buds are concerned bitterness is an aversive sensation and is seen as such by the body to prevent ingestion of toxic or harmful substances. However not everything that is bitter is harmful. To some, a taste for those things bitter is developed and eventually craved over numerous exposures.
We don't start out enjoying that which is bitter. Generally we like those things which are sweet and savory. Things that wet our palette at a mere thought and which are complimentary to sight, smell and taste. lobster, filet mignon, wild berry and cream cheese tart, a double chocolate cake containing a molten chocolate center.
A baby (if he/she had teeth) would consume these things with the utmost pleasure and satisfaction because they are so pleasing to the palate. As we grow and are exposed to other things, we acquire a more sophisticated taste for those things less sweet, and slightly more bitter.
Can the same turn in appetite for those things less sweet possibly be seen in human nature as well?
As I have said before, and will probably mention a couple hundred more times, is the fact that in the restaurant industry you see all kinds. When you think they can't get stranger, someone asks you to fill a To-go salad bowl with water, and place a lid on it for their dog that is waiting patiently, for an actual doggy bag, in the car. When you think people can't get any meaner, they disrespect you, throw a baked potato onto the plate in your hand numerous times to further express the lack of sour cream that was to garnish the baked root and refuse a recook on their meal because they would rather go to Burger King than wait for our fine dining establishment to fix their mistake.
I mention the baked potato Burger King worshiper for a reason. I failed to mention that this particular individual was on a Friday night date his his male counterpart when his meal was delivered less than perfectly to the table. Now people aren 't born critical, mean and bitter. It is time, circumstances and other people that acquire this taste in them over time.
They are brought into the world as sweet innocent creatures who act as sponges in every way possible, absorbing all that is healthful, loving and nurturing. They grow up as good human beings with caring hearts who want the best for those around them. They sacrifice their own happiness to see the growing happiness of others. It is others happiness that they, themselves flourish on. "As you sow, that shall ye also reap." So they sow love, sow care, sow respect, sow humbleness, sow meekness. They sow and sow and sow but eventually their harvest becomes sparse, dry and full of lack. They are sowing, but those that benefit from all that sowing do nothing but take.
The reapers recognize the benefit that they themselves receive from the hard work and toil of the one serving and wonder, why they should toil at all when there are soft hearted servants whose happiness is found in others' happiness, to do all their work for them.
The problem that then arises is that the servant reaps no harvest. There is no food to feed them. They are being fed that which is toxic, harmful, poisonous. They are being fed sticks, dirt and weeds.
After a while that which they are being fed, feeds into their soul and they realize that there are people who just take, and take and take.
The person lays their plans, their hopes, their dreams and their future out and places it in the hands of greedy, self-seeking people. Those people see the power that they hold in their grasp and cling onto it with all their might, squeezing the life out of your life and dreams until there is nothing of you left.
Those who used to seek out that which was sweet in life have now been exposed to and crave that which is bitter. They are accustomed to it and see that this bitterness is the only way that they will make a way for themselves. The only way that they won't be used and trampled death.
They decide to move on without others. Start over in a life of solitude with the hope of one day being sewn into by some other human full of love, compassion and sweetness, so that they can once again see the sweetness in life.
It is toxic. It is a taste that prevents us from danger but can be considered pleasant over time. It grows.
People aren't born bitter. It is the people and circumstances that change that for them.
The potato man has probably been discriminated against for the majority of his life and a baked potato not done to his satisfaction and specifications may have triggered something that sent him over the edge. It is unfortunate, but the lowly sever so happened to be the reaper of all the bitterness that had been sown into him over the years. Now how will that bitterness feed into the life of the server? And what will that server go on to sow?
Be a sower of happiness and love. Be a reaper of those things as well. Just remember to sow more of the same, because if you don 't you are robbing someone else of their harvest and causing them to grown in and become accustomed to that which is bitter and toxic.